"To Survive, the Child Must Deny Abuse. To Grow, the Adult Must Overcome Denial." 2026
— Annotated copy of handwritten letter, inkjet print of childhood toy, pen on repurposed decor

#mixedmedia #mixedmediaart #smARTist #contemporaryart #trauma #covertabuse #collage

#covertabuse
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#ToxicFriendship #EmotionalManipulation #NarcissisticAbuse #FriendshipRedFlags #Gaslighting #CovertAbuse #IsolationTactics #ManipulativePeople #TrustYourGut #ToxicDynamics #FakeFriend #EmotionalControl #BoundariesMatter #Triangulation #ProtectYourPeace

forensic unpacking / boundary Forensic Unpacking / Boundary’s What word choice reveals about a speakers mentality.  “He’s negotiating a boundary.” There are two things ab...

Forensic Unpacking : Boundary

What Word Choice Reveals About A Speakers Mentality

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#language #prejudice #boundaries #psychology #sociology #covertpolitics #covertabuse #manipulation #frame

How Can You Tell When You're Being Manipulated? And How Can You Stop It? They use your best qualities against you, and before you know it, you're choosing things that harm you. What it can look like, how it feels in your body, and solid tactics to break free.

“Even when manipulators present a caring facade, their actions consistently prioritize control over genuine connection, and their own desires over others' wellbeing.”
#abusetactics #manipulation #manipulationtactics #narcissisticabuse #covertnarcissist #covertabuse #gaslighting #abuserecovery #cptsd

Triangulation: How to Survive When They Turn Others Against You Why do some people need to stir up sh*t? And why does this particular form of betrayal cut so deeply?

“Their power lies not in widespread character assassination, but…surgical precision with which they disrupt individual connections…while maintaining the appearance of a concerned friend”
#Triangulation
#NarcissisticAbuse
#CPTSDRecovery
#ComplexTrauma
#Trauma
#CovertAbuse
#RelationalTrauma
#CPTSD

Parental Alienation: When Children Become Unwitting Participants in Narcissistic Abuse When the child is both the weapon and the casualty in the war a narcissist rages against their kids' other parent, the injustice and pain can be crippling. Here's how to navigate this complex problem.

“…both the targeted parent and the children…are likely experiencing…CPTSD…it's a profound psychological injury…”
#narcissisticabuse
#narcissisticparents
#complextrauma
#cptsdrecovery
#traumarecovery
#emotionalabuse
#parentalalienation
#covertabuse
#healingjourney
#traumahealing
#mentalhealth #cptsd

"Nice Guys" & "Sweet Girls": Can You Tell When They're Actually A Narcissist? What happens when the 'nice guy' or 'sweet girl' everyone admires becomes someone else behind closed doors? Explore this calculated duality and how to support victims.

“For victims, this contrast between the public persona and private reality can be… confusing and isolating, especially when others fail to…believe the narcissist's harmful actions”
#cptsd #narcabuserecovery #covertnarcissist #narcissisticabuse #covertabuse
#emotionalabuse #gaslighting #manipulation

#CoerciveControl looks like having a ride to a post-surgery follow-up contingent upon good behavior at the last minute & not having $ to catch a ride share. Took my own sutures out.

#CovertAbuse #DVSurvivor #CovertAbuseSurvivor #NarcissisticAbuse #Disabilityrights

It’s harder for ♿️ peeps 2 leave.

Read about it on my substack:
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#Medicare #MedicareCuts #DisabilityRights #CovertAbuse #DVsurvivor #CSASurvivor #Seniors #USA #Humana #FuckAbleism #GimpOnAMission #invisible #SituationalMutism #ActuallyAutistic #AutisticVoices

I’m in the final edits of my first book and I couldn’t be happier. #abuse #emotionalabuse #narcissisticabuse #covertabuse #domesticviolence

Introducing: Modern Day Self-Inquiry... and a Nigel Farage ousting! Look into yourself, dissect what you see, become a better person just for noticing...

We can all be manipulated, how easily depends on how much self-awareness you have. Nigel Farage takes advantage of the fear, division and hatred he spent years creating in people. Know the devil when you see him! #beware #invisiblewar #nazis #covertabuse #assault #brexit anamaria.org/introducing-...

"It is easier to find men who will volunteer to die than to find those who are willing to endure pain with patience." - Julius Caesar

"The glory is not in dying, it’s in the thriving. I know. I built myself from scratch." - WickedLizzie

#GenXerGem 💎 #DVSurvivor #CSASurvivor #CovertAbuse #Quote

Victim blaming happens because of the Just-world fallacy:

Good people win,
Bad people lose.

I wish Critical Thinking were taught, but indoctrination ya know & not just religious. Capitalism.
#logicalfallacy #justworld
#GimpOnAMission
#DVSurvivor #CovertAbuse #EatThepatriarchy
#CriticalThinker

He dumped me in 2019, I divorced him, he obstructed tho he wanted it, so I just have to wait until he’s bored or I turn 60 because no one will help, not even legal aid. I’ve contacted multiple agencies with zero results.

#CovertAbuse
#FinancialExploitation
#DisabilityRights
#AutisticVoices

I hate being perceived as femme because of all the emotional labor I’m expected to do to protect the feelings of cishet men when they abuse me.

Disabled people are disproportionately targeted for abuse.

#GimpOnAMission
#DisabilityRights
#EnbyProblems #CovertAbuse #DVSurvivor #CognitiveDissonance

When you #unwillingly live with the King of the thieves of joy…

I’m just here for the anhedonia.

#WickedLizzie
#feelings #nojoy #nofun #covertabuse #DVSurvivor #ActuallyAutistic #DivorceNightmare #setmeFree #DivorcingWhileAutistic

I get so tired of being a fly trapped under a glass with my abuser. 19-Mar-2023 was the deadline for asset division. He’s bled me dry, I’m disabled with no resources but my so-called friends get mad at me for not being happy? Piss up a rope & bite off the wet end. I am TIRED.
#covertabuse #disabled

Day 4 thread 3/3
Resource material comes from this excellent article: medium.com/from-mulch/t...
#cptsdsurvivor #peskymotermouth #nolongersilent #abuseawareness #covertabuse #masking #familyviolence

Day 4 thread 2/3
Resource material comes from this excellent article: medium.com/from-mulch/t...
#cptsdsurvivor #peskymotermouth #nolongersilent #abuseawareness #covertabuse #masking #familyviolence

Day 4 thread 1/3
Resource material comes from this excellent article: medium.com/from-mulch/t...
#cptsdsurvivor #peskymotermouth #nolongersilent #abuseawareness #covertabuse #masking #familyviolence

Violence against people with disability - Fact sheets Violence against people with disability - Fact sheets

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Raising awareness for the disabled community, my community.

♿️🫶🏻💖

#DisabilityRightsAreHumanRights
#disabilityrights
#protectthevulnerable
#noableism
#dvviolence
#disableddvsurvivor
#covertabuse
#cripplepunk
#gimponamission
#statisticsofabuse

FAQs: The signs of relationship abuse and how to help | UN Women – Headquarters Violence against women is a human rights violation that takes place every single day around the world. Globally, one in three women experiences physical or sexual violence, mostly by an intimate partn...

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#relationshipabuse
#dvsurvivor
#csasurvivor
#childabusesurvivor
#coercivecontrol
#covertabuse
#endviolence
#disabilityrights
#endDV
#UNWomen
#women

I’m writing a book about my experiences. My entire life has been off the rails. I can’t believe I’ve survived this long. I’ll announce here when I’m ready. I just started, but I document everything. I have a huge amount of data to organize. ✌🏻

#dvsurvivor
#csasurvivor
#disabilityrights
#covertabuse

We were married 28 years & he’s holding me hostage by not following our decree. Courts are useless. I’m a house bound isolated disabled person with no moral support except my therapist. I am being exploited & psychologically tortured. I’m getting pissed.

#gimponamission
#covertabuse
#disability

Me: Help! Help! I’m being oppressed! I’m disabled & can’t escape!
World: That’s your problem.

Eat the patriarchy! CHOMP CHOMP BACHEWY CHOMP CHOMP

I have a brain. He does not.

#disabilityrights
#gimponamission
#covertabuse
#trapped
#dvsurvivor
#csasurvivor
#silenceisviolence
#cripplepunk

Married: 1995
Divorced: 2022

The asset division should have happened in March 2023. I had moved out Xmas 2020. I had to come back to babysit him because he won’t do what he’s supposed to. Decree enforcement is a fucking joke.

#disabilityrights
#covertabuse
#gimponamission
#enoughisenough

Him: I want a divorce.
Me: Ok *files divorce*
Him: Drop the divorce, I’m not ready.
Me: Not my problem.

This man has cost me $18k in legal fees. I don’t have the resources to fight indefinitely. He’s bled me dry.

Says he married me to help me.

#covertabuse
#financialexploitation
#disabilityrights

When I worked, I had a self made career. He worked retail stocking shelves. I’m the reason we had assets to fight over. But tell me I don’t deserve what I worked for because I became disabled? Who the fuck do you think you are?

#enoughisenough
#gimponamission
#disabilityrights
#covertabuse