I just got a restraining order on my abusive roomate. My partner and I (both trans+disabled) are finally free, but now we need help covering rent, medication, and food on our own.
Anything helps, thank you for reading.
paypal.me/daouppy
$Nightconstellation66
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#transmutualaid #DVsurvivor
I posted this on my blog a day ago. One of the most difficult things to write that I have ever written. Content and Trigger warning. Love and safety to all survivors.
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#DV #doloreshuerta #patriarchy #misogyny #dvsurvivor #ptsd #cptsd
Snow and ice receding to reveal sand
The spring melting it reminds me of hope. Clarity of hope without lies. #reclaimingme #dvsurvivor
Survival support & community care needed in Maine! linktr.ee/vickivvinters #MutualAid #DVSurvivor
Huge fluffy snowflakes fall so slowly to the ground, the world is quietly wrapping around me like a hug. The wonder of nature. Nostalgia for a childhood memory faded into only feeling. A glimmer of safety. #reclaimingme #DVsurvivor #romanticizelife
A tree on the right in front of a bridge in a park with a lake and fog clouds the distance
I went for a walk alone and stopped at the bench in the park. Another foggy day. Walkers said hello to me as they passed by. I feel seen again. #reclaimingme #DVsurvivor
An open window with a winter scene
A crisp wintery breeze from the window. Letting out that stale air. Why did I stop opening the windows? What a beautiful breath of fresh air. #reclaimingme #DVsurvivor #joy
A night to myself at the theater. The foggy atmosphere suited the film I chose and I found a piece of myself again. #DVsurvivor #reclaimingme
![[Image: Text on a dark green background, below an image of a ripe plum. Text: "Poetry has been hugely healing for me as I've recovered from horrendous domestic and intimate partner violence. I drew metaphors in the sand and said, no more accepting abuse as love. I feel like I've mostly transformed from trauma surviving to trans thriving, despite all odds and obstacles, and these poems are evidence of just how far I've grown. From Trauma Surviving to Trans Thriving: "Not Your Fucking Rehab" and "Protection" by Zoë Zack Dunning. forge.tips/trans-thriving." FORGE logo.]](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:c2dts77pg55jgwjjbt73tlzt/bafkreigravvcmaspv7n2ohbgr3gx6kf54glqfhspdkxuct7rxsfjvcly2e)
[Image: Text on a dark green background, below an image of a ripe plum. Text: "Poetry has been hugely healing for me as I've recovered from horrendous domestic and intimate partner violence. I drew metaphors in the sand and said, no more accepting abuse as love. I feel like I've mostly transformed from trauma surviving to trans thriving, despite all odds and obstacles, and these poems are evidence of just how far I've grown. From Trauma Surviving to Trans Thriving: "Not Your Fucking Rehab" and "Protection" by Zoë Zack Dunning. forge.tips/trans-thriving." FORGE logo.]
Our newest Trans Survivors blog post features two poems from Zoë Zack Dunning: "Not Your Fucking Rehab" and "Protection." Read Zoë's work at forge.tips/trans-thriving. Connect with Zoë at allmylinks.com/mellifluouswriting!
#TransSurvivors #TransPoets #DVSurvivor #IPV
He frames his exit as “calming down,” but the message is doing three things at once: blaming my distress, reversing victim and offender, and leaving without accountability. This is what blame shifting can look like in real time. #DVSurvivor #CoerciveControl #DARVO #Accountability #TraumaRecovery
Illinois state is picking up the charges against my ex. The DV/SVU sent me a letter
I really never thought I'd see the day... ✊️ #DVsurvivor #DVawareness
Image of me looking into the camera wearing eyeliner and glitter lip gloss
After a lot of thinking, I’ve decided on staying here in Houston.
I ended up finding a potential roommate so our plan is to save money with each check we get and then hopefully by the end of February we can afford to move.
$TentatekSplattershot
#DVsurvivor #mutualaid #LGBTQ
#GifsArtidote: just to level shit out & round up today's events,
i like to listen to #JenniferLisaVest who always makes me laugh AND analyse it all.
#SelfCare #NewsOverload #MentalHealth #DVsurvivor #recovery #CPTSD #spirituality
youtu.be/5X6S9I7xN0E?
Image of a storage unit mostly filled up with boxes and some small furniture such as shelves
The past week has been extremely exhausting for me but I have most of my stuff moved into a storage unit. I’m currently saving up to move out so any help would be appreciated 🙏🏽
$TentatekSplattershot
#mutualaid #LGBTQ #DVsurvivor #Texas #BIPOCmutualaid
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Nevra has no respite from severe symptoms and no help locally.
If you can, please donate:
PayPal: www.paypal.com/paypalme/Sav...
GoFundMe: www.gofundme.com/f/save-nevra
#severeME #ChronicIllness #MillionsMissing #MEcfs #Endo #MCAS #POTS #EDS #Neuroimmune #pwME #DVSurvivor #DVAWARENESS
#ChronicIllness #MillionsMissing #MEcfs #Endo #MCAS #POTS #EDS #Neuroimmune #pwME #DVSurvivor #DVAWARENESS #severeME
3/3 Donate via PayPal (www.paypal.com/paypalme/Sav...) or GoFundMe (www.gofundme.com/f/save-nevra)
#ChronicIllness #MillionsMissing #MEcfs #Endo #MCAS #POTS #EDS #Neuroimmune #pwME #DVSurvivor #DVAWARENESS #pwME
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This isn’t just about one person — it’s about ending the silence around disabled MENA women who are erased, tokenised, and left behind.
#SaveNevra #SevereME #EDS #MECFS #DisabilityJustice #EndAbleism #BelieveWomen #DVSurvivor #ChronicIllness #TeamNevra #IWeigh
To all my fellow abuse survivors- I don't care if you didn't press charges, I don't care how long you stayed, I don't care how many times you forgave your abuser, or if you weren't the "perfect victim." I stand with you and no one deserves to be hurt by someone they love. #dvsurvivor #abusesurvivor
Still needing help with this if anyone is able 🙏 been stuck here all night and it's looking like it's gonna rain soon
#urgentmutualaid #maboost #transcrowdfund 💕💸💕💸🏳️⚧️ #mutualaid #fundsky #helpsky #kofi #dvsurvivor #sasurvivor
CA- $mineralcraftsman
VN- issabikey
PP- qk.zen22@gmail.com
ko-fi.com/retrx
Please excuse all the “um”s - I haven’t made a vlog in over a year and I was nervous, lol. But I’m starting a nonprofit and I’d like to introduce it #RedPetalProject #saawareness #dvawareness #sasurvivor #dvsurvivor
Not a nice post today, but as always I'm keeping it real. #domesticviolenceawareness #DomesticViolenceAwarenessMonth #domesticviolencesurvior #dvsurvivor #DVAwarenessMonth
I have raised $0 in the past 3 days! Any amount helps, I was hoping to go grocery shopping today. I've been eating mostly rice, potatoes, and apples. That's not good for diabetes, it's just what I can afford!
#mutualaidsaveslives #ma #disabilitycrowdfund #sasurvivor #dvsurvivor #transmutualaflaid
![[Image: Green text overlaying a tan background with graphics of line-drawn flowers. Text: "Intimate Partner Violence, Authoritarianism, and Trans Lives. Rescheduled! Panel Discussion. october 14th, 2025 - 6 - 7:30 pm EST. Register on zoom! forge.tips/IPV-trans-lives" FORGE logo.]](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:c2dts77pg55jgwjjbt73tlzt/bafkreidmtkaocegnqho6vqxiqbk2rmzdts4gstvu62hu4a3ppnh22c4umm)
[Image: Green text overlaying a tan background with graphics of line-drawn flowers. Text: "Intimate Partner Violence, Authoritarianism, and Trans Lives. Rescheduled! Panel Discussion. october 14th, 2025 - 6 - 7:30 pm EST. Register on zoom! forge.tips/IPV-trans-lives" FORGE logo.]
RESCHEDULED: our upcoming panel on IPV, authoritarianism, and trans lives is now scheduled for October 14th, 2025, at 6 pm EST. Sign up at forge.tips/IPV-trans-lives
#TransSurvivors #DomesticViolence #IPV #DVSurvivor #ViolencePrevention
fucking terrifying, even just typing the L-word 😆
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#press #media #psychology #MENtalHealth #GenerationalTrauma #EmotionalNeglect #recovery #CPTSD #BPD #NPD #DVsurvivor #AbsentFathers #SingleParentFamilies
fucking love my favourite alcoholic #JohnnyCash with this awesome song #PersonalJesus
#NoGodsNoMasters 🏴🖤🌎 🌕
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#music before bedtime #press #media #recovery #DVsurvivor #BPD #DysthymicDisorder #MENtalHealth #CPTSD
