Idk if anyone else experiences this, but I get wildly panicked every time I resume parenting my kid after a break. It’s just so much pressure and I rarely get a break that I just get a weird version of the Sunday scaries I think #singleparent #singlemom #soloparent #toddlers #amiokay
I'm an Indian-Bengali-American data scientist, writer, and artist. I have a PhD in Biomedical Informatics, I'm pursuing solo parenthood (which means I paused HRT), and I process everything by writing about it publicly.
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Multi photo collage of the process of taking apart fixing and putting back together my oven.
Christmas dinner is saved, I have successfully changed the element. Made slightly tricky as had to take off fan & back & gas pipe is quite short, so oven cant be pulled far out from the wall, good job I am small. Winning at adulting. #repairs #oven #christmasdinner #soloparent #grateful #proud
No mom of pda teen is ready to change Thanksgiving plans . But we do . #autism #pda #scarfing #silents #soloparent
Yay a 🤢🤮💩 bug, that's just what we need when we have no hot water or heating. So far its just me, so small blessings. Please dont let any of the children get it. The joys of 2 hrs repeat 🤮💩 and then bleaching bathroom, door handles etc to try not to share germs. #poorly #winterbugs #soloparent
Another Monday, just trying to juggle it all. Hopefully we only drop a few balls today 🤣 Reminding myself to take a deep breath, and just keep going.
#booksky #monday #romancebooks #soloparent #workingmom #writing #author #corporatebaddie #romancelandia #dontgiveup #keepgoing #books #bookworm
Life challenge got to keep your head up even when things get hard for you . #Specialneeds #soloparent
I or another adult has to be in the home as well. So we have 18 hours over 2 providers in the home, aiming to be able to take him out in community at some point. Plus some forest school, how do you work as well? School isnt childcare... but it IS. #SEND #EOTAS #soloparent #juggling
Little things like this make such a difference to my food budget and mood. The treats we wdnt have! Hell I would never food shop in m&s! It actually pretty much made me cry this evening to get this. Life might feel hard sometimes but we are very lucky. #soloparent #food #nowaste #lucky #treat
You know that moment that you just feel so full of love for someone. Like, it fills every cell and radiates out?
That’s me right now, thinking about my son. 🥹
#parentingnz #soloparent #lovewins #aotearoa
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My escape room…
The pottery is glazed and the bottoms wiped. The kiln shelves are prepped and ready to load.
This place is my sanctuary. When I leave here I must face a world that feels like it wants to break me once more.
I’m tired.
#widowed #soloparent #specialneedsparent
Being a caregiver/mom to a special needs child is hard work and stressful . Never know what kind of reaction from my Dandy walkers child . #soloparent
And also fortunately her teachers at daycare are going to be my mega team mates in this endeavor 🙏🏻☀️🌟
#SoloParent #ItTakesAVillage
Sketch of travel home from holiday (done between Eastleigh and Winchester at 21.53) - leave amid much chaos; 30 minutes car nap is all we get; ferry is notable for funnels, "funny man" (magician), pom bears on the deck, posh fish and chip restaurant; finally get on train but toddler not keen on sleeping (crawling around going "mind the gap"); but then he sleeps until we get home about midnight!
Sketches of toddler's holiday highlights: pom bears, making stone rainbows, washing line "hosepipes", sand waterfalls, car phone cable, big plate of chips, Bruno the dog, velcro house, paddling, windmill, Briquebec castle garden, Rowan making funny noises, "find more grass seeds", real screwdriver, sugary breakfast cereals, funnels, merry-go-round. My holiday highlights: mostly tea and company
More holiday sketches from August: the voyage home and the toddler's holiday highlights
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Black and white sketches of travel with toddler: I am so nervous; eat lots of crisps on train; explain Reading festival (toddler is thrilled at the concept of loud music); eat fish and chips and admire beer taps; get stuck in a playground; panic about buses; run around ferry port and getreprimanded for abandoning our pram; utter failure to get toddler to sleep in pram; finally on board overnight ferry - can't assemble travel cot despite toddler's enthusiastic help; he's still awake at 10.30 singing "dum dum dum" in cot
Sketch of 3 adults and 3 small kids playing in tide pools at the beach - toddler's first paddle!
Black and white sketch of man asleep on sofa and dog curled up asleep on the floor
Sketch of man and child assembling a climbing frame in a large garden next to an old stone barn with ivy growing on it; dog inspects flowers nearby
August holiday to Normandy: overnight ferry, first paddle, sleepy dog, building a climbing frame
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Sketches of toddler's second birthday celebrations - owl-shaped chocolate cake, extraordinary number of presents (mostly owls), most of the family, pretty much all the potato-y/breadcrumb-y snacks you can think of (hash browns, waffles, crisps, fishfingers), slightly too much transport, an entire model village (Bekonscot) which the toddler is ignoring in favour of a broken drainpipe
Sketches of toddler's favourite toy - the cardboard tube, which functions as a hoover, a trombone, a ball run, and an egg making device (roll the toy eggs down it to make them crack in a bowl at the bottom)
Sketches of toddler's real (pronounced "riddle") birthday - watching Twirlywoos, to nursery with a caterpillar cake, to the pub for pizza and chips - but more importantly to the the big extractor fan and play with the hosepipe
Sketch of toddler playing with cat-shaped watering can near garden tap. He's saying "you making lake"
Sketchbook diaries from August: in which the toddler turns two!!
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Sketch of toddler in a sunhat and my mum playing next to a fallen tree - toddler is saying "owl nest tree fall down"
Sketches of a trip to the dentist - I wake up to a cold and the world's biggest spreadsheet, then go to the dentist for 3 fillings. I'm dreading the needle, but then have a lovely doze during the actual filling process.
Sketch of soft toys in toddler's cot: a rabbit, two octopuses, a marshmallow, two mice, a gorilla, an elephant, a stegosaurus and an owl
Still life sketch - kilner jars of porridge and flour, empty mugs, empty milk bottle, and a fly in the foreground
Sketchbook diaries from the summer (on this snowy day) - fallen tree, dentist, toys, still life with milk bottle
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Black and white sketch of tall pine tree, overshadowing bus and belisha beacon
Black and white sketch of brightly coloured clothes on washing line, above garden chair, old bike, toy car
Sketch of toddler falling asleep during Nick Cope set at the rusty bike street party - Nick Cope is singing "I'm a little lizard standing on a rock", my toddler is fast asleep in his pram; also another toddler dancing and a little dog
Sketch of "the saga of big fan" - toddler loves fans of all kinds, but is terrified when I turn on the tower fan in his room; and yet he is fascinated by it - sits on it, looks at the vents and the wire, pretends to press buttons, but refuses to let me actually turn it on; then a friend gave him a windmill and showed how he could use a fan to make it turn - this finally reconciled him with big fan and now the problem is getting him to stop turning it on
Sketchbook diaries from July: tree on Manzil way, washing line, Nick Cope, and the saga of big fan
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Black and white sketch of toddler's favourite toys: radio, bike pump ,whisk, hoover, straw (that he pretends is a screwdriver)
Long tall sketch of a yellow crane against a dramatic sky (plus a red kite bird flying in background)
Sketches of a day with toddler - playing with 'screwdriver' straw; hanging out in sandpit; filling watering can in garden full of ants; terrible scenes as he accidentally drains all the water from his bath
Sketches of another day with toddler: playing in mud kitchen; pretending to be squirrels; a blood-inducing bump on a slide; outing without the pram to buy bananas; can't sleep because of storm (toddler think it will blow down a tree)
Toddler diaries from July: the best toys, crane, screwdrivers, and mud kitchen
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Mackenzie - a little girl in an orange hoodie - is rolling out marzipan on a kitchen table
Mackenzie - a little girl in an orange hoodie - and Granny Sue - a white woman with light hair - are rolling out marzipan on a kitchen table. In the foreground is a Christmas cake glistening because we covered it in apricots jam!
Mackenzie - a little girl in an orange hoodie - and Kirstie (but with her head cut off!) are adding icing snowflakes to the Christmas cake
Mackenzie - a little girl in an orange hoodie - and Kirstie - a white woman smiling at the camera - are cutting out snowflakes from icing on the kitchen table
Christmas cake icing with Granny Sue.
#HappyHolidays #Christmas #SoloMum #SoloParent #GranniesAreTheBest
Sketches of good things in toddler life (running in graveyard, fishfingers, dancing with the radio) and not so good things (hairwashing, terrifying-yet-fascinating big fan, sleeping in a hot room)
Sketches of the horrows of nightweaning - get toddler to sleep (after singing "what shall we do with the drunken sailor"); all well until 2.30 in the morning, at which point I repeatedly leave him to cry for short stretches, stroke, and eventually end up lying on the floor telling him stories about a tiny bug; at 4.15 I give in and feed him back to sleep
Sketches from 5th July - toddler awake 3.30 to 5 in the morning, but for once I don't mind as I get to watch Rees Mogg losing his seat; distracted at work day especially when Python course makes me do maths; suprise chaotic pub trip with kids and usual bedtime mania
Sketches of various blue crockery, holding things like tea, strawberries, and bluberry cake
Toddler diaries from July: mostly complaints about night-weaning, but also a happy election result and some cake!
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The other thing is that she’s picked up on me saying “are you ready” after the instrumental while he’s talking to his parents. I don’t even know I was doing it until this little voice from the back seat of the car started saying “are you ready mama?” Glorious.
#SoloMum #SoloParent #ShowtuneFamily 🥰
Sketches of journey from Oxford to Lake Windermere - after various disasters (soap in eye, missing bus...) we eat hula hoops on the train; we find my parents and amazingly S. sleeps in car and wakes up to play with stones at a garden centre; things then get very screamy (despite repeated applications of Yellow Submarine); we make an emergency supermarket stop (S. is hyper and removes all jam from the shelf), then eventually reach the lake and the house which is entirely composed on stairs!
Black and white sketch of holiday house - two long farmhouses whacked together, ivy growing round door, garden chairs and pram (with sleeping kid) outside
Black and white sketch from Brockhole garden - mountains, lakes in background; in foreground flowers and feet of sleeping child
Sketches of small children playing under trees in gardens of Wray Castle
Sketchbook diaries from June: to the mountains! (family holiday to Windermere)
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Sketch of guitarist and trombonist in the playground (playing "if you're silly and you know it blow a raspberry"), surrounded by parents and kids with various instruments
Sketches of "Dentistry and Disasters" - wake up very early to go to the dentist, only to discover that our appointment was 8.50 not 8.15 - S. is very patient and reads his booka about a "nornal bird" while my teeth are done. I get to use the "tiny air pipe" while the dentist counts his sixteen teeth. Bad news - I have to come back and have three expensive fillings - and then accidentally bite my mouth while eating a rice cake.
Sketches of a tiring day - full morning's activity before 9.30 - hoovering, tv, garden in the rain; take toddler to museum where he plays with card rack and eats a brownie and then becomes very hyper; suddenly contract a cold while doing mortgage admin
Sketch of garden - wooden chair, watering can, Christmas tree in a pot
Sketchbook diaries from June: music in the playground, Dentistry and Disasters, hyper in the museum, Christmas tree in June...
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Sketches of chaos with toddler and two other small boys - playing with bubbles and stones in garden, chasing toy cars around a rocking horse, watching telly, eating a lot of pasta
Sketches of travelling home from London with toddler - he enjoys escalators and repeating "Euston Square" and train crisps - we reach home and both nap and then toddler demands a trip to the library - mainly running around but we do get some books!
Sketch of St Barnabas church in Jericho Oxford against a blue sky with lots of dramatic white clouds - done in a pleasingly scratchy pen
Sketches of a silly day - toddler wakes me up at 5.30 (shouting "down down down" - finally time to leave the house - and then I spend all day doing a stupid thing on a spreadsheet. I cycle up and down a hill to pick up a black board, retrieve toddler from a disco party at nursery, and then have an insight into my spreadsheet problem while breastfeeding at bed time.
Sketchbook diaries from June: chaos with three small boys; travelling home from London; St Barnabas Jericho; a silly day
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Sketches of toddler enjoying fountain at Botanical gardens, making himself useful doing the hoovering, playing with lego like a child, and eating a giant "brookie" brownie
Sketches of an exhausting bank holiday Monday - trip to garden centre including hash browns, peacocks, hosepipe; very brief nap in car; playing in garden with tap and unexpectedly disturbed ants' nest (!); toddler passes out; trip to the playground; washing up
Sketch of adorably asleep toddler in his cot, with mobile above him
Sketchbook diaries from May - Botanical Gardens, garden centre, sleepy toddler
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Sketch of toddler with tousled hair asleep on a big bed
Black and white sketch of Sutton Hoo viewing tower (minimalist style, made of wood and concrete), two pine trees, toddler and my dad
Sketch of journey home from Suffolk - we survive thanks to pastries, yellow submarine, playground stop, exciting aeroplane, and repeatedly recounting the plot of Hey Duggee - the juice badge
5 sketches of toddler playing in the park with a mud kitchen - wearing blue trousers, yellow T shirt, blue spotty sunhat
Diaries from May: sleepy toddler, Sutton Hoo viewing tower, journey home from Suffolk, playing in the park
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“When grief becomes a holiday guest, it changes so much, and I hope that you are especially gentle with your heart as you find ways to navigate this challenging time of year.”
- Liz Newman #grief #thegriefspot #thegspot #griefisadirtyword #letsnormalizegrief #widow #soloparent
Sketch of young apple tree in bloom plus a butterfly and a bee
Sketch of several boats on the river - rowers going at it hard - and a duck
Sketch of things in the kitchen (a plant, open tins of tomato, and cup of tea and half eaten digestive) - caption "Covid"
Sketch of eleven pine cones, in black and white
Sketchbook diaries from April: apple tree in bloom, boats on the river - then I got Covid - and the toddler found some pinecones
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