News/Opinion: HOSTING RULES WE STAND BY as a reliable and established framework, RHOSLC TENSION highlights concerns around conflicting expectations within these guidelines. The Art of Hosting: What Makes a Good Hostess and When to Know BetterAs we ring in the new year, many of us are thinking about hosting gatherings for friends and family. But have you ever stopped to think about what makes a good hostess? Is it just about serving food and drinks, or is there more to it than that?In our latest episode, Roxanne and I shared a listener message that completely made our Christmas. It was a heartwarming reminder of the importance of kindness and generosity during the holiday season. But as we reflected on what makes a good hostess, we couldnt help but dive into some of the more... lets say, delicate topics surrounding hosting etiquette.You see, being a good hostess isnt just about serving food and drinks; its about creating an atmosphere that makes your guests feel welcome and included. Its about being attentive to their needs, listening actively, and making sure everyone has a great time. But what happens when things go wrong? When the conversation turns awkward or someone says something hurtful?Thats exactly what happened in our latest episode of The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City. Meredith Marks and Jen Shah were at odds over some pretty serious issues, including Merediths response to Jens reduced sentence. It was a tense conversation that left many viewers wondering: what are the boundaries of hosting etiquette? When do you stand up for yourself, and when do you let things go?As we broke down the episode, Roxanne and I landed on very different sides of the conversation. We both had strong opinions about what Meredith should have done differently, but ultimately, it came down to one thing: respect. Respect for your guests, respect for their feelings, and respect for the boundaries that are in place.But hosting etiquette isnt just about respecting others; its also about being respectful of yourself. When do you know when to say no to a host or hostess? When is it okay to set boundaries, and how do you communicate those boundaries effectively?For me, it all comes down to intuition. If something feels off or uncomfortable, trust your instincts and speak up. Dont be afraid to say no or set boundaries; in fact, being clear and direct is often the most respectful thing you can do.Of course, there are some people who should maybe never host at all. Not because theyre not capable of hosting a great party, but because their behavior or attitude creates an uncomfortable atmosphere for others. Weve all been to those gatherings where someones negativity or drama overshadows the entire event. Its okay to set boundaries and prioritize your own well-being in those situations.As we wrapped up our episode with a deep dive into the documentary centered on Mary Cosby, Roxanne and I couldnt help but question her character. What did we learn from watching this documentary? Did it change everything we thought we knew about Mary?The answer is complicated. While the documentary shed some light on Marys past and her relationships with others, it also raised more questions than answers. It made us wonder: what drives someone to behave in certain ways? Is it a desire for power or control, or is there something deeper at play?Ultimately, being a good hostess isnt just about serving food and drinks; its about creating an atmosphere of respect, kindness, and inclusivity. Its about being attentive to your guests needs, listening actively, and making sure everyone has a great time. And when things go wrong, its okay to set boundaries and prioritize your own well-being.So the next time youre hosting a gathering or attending one as a guest, remember: respect is key. Respect for others, respect for yourself, and respect for the boundaries that are in place. With these principles in mind, youll be well on your way to creating an atmosphere of kindness, generosity, and inclusivity – the hallmarks of a truly great hostess.#AllAboutTRHPodcast–AllAboutTheTruth

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